{"id":28,"date":"2005-01-15T20:50:00","date_gmt":"2005-01-16T04:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/?p=28"},"modified":"2005-01-15T20:50:00","modified_gmt":"2005-01-16T04:50:00","slug":"life-and-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/2005\/01\/15\/life-and-death\/","title":{"rendered":"Life and Death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My uncle has spent much of the last few years battling with various ailments, but the bottom line is his lungs just don&#8217;t work anymore.  He&#8217;s spent the last week in the hospital on a respirator, and the doctors have said there&#8217;s nothing they can do anymore.  He&#8217;s still alert and can communicate, and after consulting with his immediate family, decided he&#8217;d had a good life, and it was time to move on.  This afternoon, they removed him from the respirator.  The doctors say that without it, he has between 1 and 3 days to live.  I travelled to visit him this afternoon.  He was sleeping when I got there, but he did wake up after a while, and I got to talk to him for a bit.  His throat was too sore from being hooked up to the respirator to talk more than a mumble, but his eyes were alert, and he could nod and shake his head.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of those situations that just makes you think.  He&#8217;s been on life-support, but he&#8217;s still conscious.  Here he is completely alert and knowing he&#8217;s going to die in the next couple days.  I just can&#8217;t imagine having to deal with that.  In a way, I suppose it&#8217;s good, because he gets to say goodbye to everyone.  All 5 of his grandchildren made it today to visit (even the ones that flew in from Colorado).  It was quite touching.<\/p>\n<p>I pray that he has a comfortable passing.<\/p>\n<p><b>UPDATE:<\/b> He did pass on at 9:20am on Sunday.  His wife, children, and his brothers were at his side.  I&#8217;m told that the family had decided to recite the Lord&#8217;s Prayer on Sunday morning, and as they said &#8220;Amen&#8221; he took his last breath.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My uncle has spent much of the last few years battling with various ailments, but the bottom line is his lungs just don&#8217;t work anymore.  He&#8217;s spent the last week in the hospital on a respirator, and the doctors have said there&#8217;s nothing they can do anymore.  He&#8217;s still alert and can communicate, and after consulting with his immediate family, decided he&#8217;d had a good life, and it was time to move on.  This afternoon, they removed him from the respirator.  The doctors say that without it, he has between 1 and 3 days to live.  I travelled to visit him this afternoon.  He was sleeping when I got there, but he did wake up after a while, and I got to talk to him for a bit.  His throat was too sore from being hooked up to the respirator to talk more than a mumble, but his eyes were alert, and he could nod and shake his head.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of those situations that just makes you think.  He&#8217;s been on life-support, but he&#8217;s still conscious.  Here he is completely alert and knowing he&#8217;s going to die in the next couple days.  I just can&#8217;t imagine having to deal with that.  In a way, I suppose it&#8217;s good, because he gets to say goodbye to everyone.  All 5 of his grandchildren made it today to visit (even the ones that flew in from Colorado).  It was quite touching.<\/p>\n<p>I pray that he has a comfortable passing.<\/p>\n<p><b>UPDATE:<\/b> He did pass on at 9:20am on Sunday.  His wife, children, and his brothers were at his side.  I&#8217;m told that the family had decided to recite the Lord&#8217;s Prayer on Sunday morning, and as they said &#8220;Amen&#8221; he took his last breath.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justdave.net\/dave\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}